Bible Gateway passage: 1 Peter 3 - New International Version (2024)

3Wives, in the same way submit yourselves^(A) to your own husbands^(B) so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over^(C) without words by the behavior of their wives, ²when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. ³Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.^{(D) 4}Rather, it should be that of your inner self,^(E) the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.^{(F) 5}For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God^(G) used to adorn themselves.^(H) They submitted themselves to their own husbands, ⁶like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord.^(I) You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

⁷Husbands,^(J) in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

Suffering for Doing Good

⁸Finally, all of you, be like-minded,^(K) be sympathetic, love one another,^(L) be compassionate and humble.^{(M) 9}Do not repay evil with evil^(N) or insult with insult.^(O) On the contrary, repay evil with blessing,^(P) because to this^(Q) you were called^(R) so that you may inherit a blessing.^{(S) 10}For,

“Whoever would love life
and see good days
must keep their tongue from evil
and their lips from deceitful speech.
¹¹They must turn from evil and do good;
they must seek peace and pursue it.
¹²For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous
and his ears are attentive to their prayer,
but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”^[a](T)

¹³Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good?^{(U) 14}But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed.^(V) “Do not fear their threats^[b]; do not be frightened.”^{[c](W) 15}But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer^(X) to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope^(Y) that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, ¹⁶keeping a clear conscience,^(Z) so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.^{(AA) 17}For it is better, if it is God’s will,^(AB) to suffer for doing good^(AC) than for doing evil. ¹⁸For Christ also suffered once^(AD) for sins,^(AE) the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God.^(AF) He was put to death in the body^(AG) but made alive in the Spirit.^{(AH) 19}After being made alive,^[d] he went and made proclamation to the imprisoned spirits^(AI)— ²⁰to those who were disobedient long ago when God waited patiently^(AJ) in the days of Noah while the ark was being built.^(AK) In it only a few people, eight in all,^(AL) were saved^(AM) through water, ²¹and this water symbolizes baptism that now saves you^(AN) also—not the removal of dirt from the body but the pledge of a clear conscience^(AO) toward God.^[e] It saves you by the resurrection of Jesus Christ,^{(AP) 22}who has gone into heaven^(AQ) and is at God’s right hand^(AR)—with angels, authorities and powers in submission to him.^(AS)

Footnotes

1. 1 Peter 3:12 Psalm 34:12-16
2. 1 Peter 3:14 Or fear what they fear
3. 1 Peter 3:14 Isaiah 8:12
4. 1 Peter 3:19 Or but made alive in the spirit, ¹⁹in which also
5. 1 Peter 3:21 Or but an appeal to God for a clear conscience

Cross references

1. 1 Peter 3:1 : 1Pe 2:18
2. 1 Peter 3:1 : S Eph 5:22
3. 1 Peter 3:1 : 1Co 7:16; 9:19
4. 1 Peter 3:3 : Isa 3:18-23; 1Ti 2:9
5. 1 Peter 3:4 : Ro 7:22; Eph 3:16
6. 1 Peter 3:4 : S Ro 2:29
7. 1 Peter 3:5 : 1Ti 5:5
8. 1 Peter 3:5 : Est 2:15
9. 1 Peter 3:6 : Ge 18:12
10. 1 Peter 3:7 : Eph 5:25-33; Col 3:19
11. 1 Peter 3:8 : S Ro 15:5
12. 1 Peter 3:8 : S Ro 12:10
13. 1 Peter 3:8 : Eph 4:2; 1Pe 5:5
14. 1 Peter 3:9 : Ro 12:17; 1Th 5:15
15. 1 Peter 3:9 : 1Pe 2:23
16. 1 Peter 3:9 : S Mt 5:44
17. 1 Peter 3:9 : S 1Pe 2:21
18. 1 Peter 3:9 : S Ro 8:28
19. 1 Peter 3:9 : Heb 6:14
20. 1 Peter 3:12 : Ps 34:12-16
21. 1 Peter 3:13 : S Tit 2:14
22. 1 Peter 3:14 : ver 17; 1Pe 2:19, 20; 4:15, 16
23. 1 Peter 3:14 : Isa 8:12, 13
24. 1 Peter 3:15 : Col 4:6
25. 1 Peter 3:15 : S Heb 3:6
26. 1 Peter 3:16 : ver 21; S Ac 23:1
27. 1 Peter 3:16 : 1Pe 2:12, 15
28. 1 Peter 3:17 : 1Pe 2:15; 4:19
29. 1 Peter 3:17 : 1Pe 2:20; 4:15, 16
30. 1 Peter 3:18 : S Heb 7:27
31. 1 Peter 3:18 : 1Pe 2:21; 4:1, 13
32. 1 Peter 3:18 : S Ro 5:2
33. 1 Peter 3:18 : Col 1:22; 1Pe 4:1
34. 1 Peter 3:18 : 1Pe 4:6
35. 1 Peter 3:19 : 1Pe 4:6
36. 1 Peter 3:20 : S Ro 2:4
37. 1 Peter 3:20 : Ge 6:3, 5, 13, 14
38. 1 Peter 3:20 : Ge 8:18
39. 1 Peter 3:20 : Heb 11:7
40. 1 Peter 3:21 : S Ac 22:16
41. 1 Peter 3:21 : ver 16; S Ac 23:1
42. 1 Peter 3:21 : 1Pe 1:3
43. 1 Peter 3:22 : S Heb 4:14
44. 1 Peter 3:22 : S Mk 16:19
45. 1 Peter 3:22 : S Mt 28:18; S Ro 8:38